The Worst Crime

Hello guys,
    Now i will make a blog about bullying that happens in everyday life. Before we enter the topic , let me introduce my self. My name is Jovin Enrico, I'm a child that born on 13 June 2001 , now I'm 17 years old, I'm studying at Darma Yudha Senior High School. And this is my first time for making a blog. Sorry if there is a mistake on my sentences and less pleasing to the heart.

   What is Bullying ? Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious , lasting problem. It's not a problem that is local to any one, but its global. Bullying is rampant in the modern era, because of the advances in the technology, so the bullying process will be easier.

   In this blog, i will explain the cause and effect of bullying based on my opinion. There are two types of bullying, that is cyber bullying and bully directly like mocking people directly in front of him that will make a sadness to the people who is being bullied. Bullying is a form of intimidation or oppression from a stronger individual or group. Bullying is different from conflicts or arguments in general, because it is seen from the level of repetition and the existence of unbalance forces between thee two parties involved. In bullying m there is an intention to cause pain and discomfort to the victim, physically and emotionally.

   Here are some examples of how bullying can affect someone: Anxiety attack , depression , back pain , stomach ache , physical injury like broken bones and  torn wounds, dizzy head, easy to get angry. Bully children have three times the chance to experience headaches, insomnia, abdominal pain, and bedwetting, and are twice as likely to have a low appetite. Bullying can also cause long term damage to self confidence. Furthermore, children who are both bully people or get bully by other people have a six fold chance of bedwetting, almost four times as much to experience poor appetite, and three times the chance of developing stomach pain

   Not only that, bullying can also trigger a mental disorders, although the perpetrators and victims are the same can be affected by mental disorders, but the victims has a bigger chance of getting the mental disorders disease. Not only mental disorders , this bullying will cause the victims got a bad inner disturbance, because of this inner disturbance , someone prefers to end his life by killing him self. Because they think that they are nothing and their life is no longer matter.

   There are many causes for someone to do a bullying. First, the low involvement and attention of parents to children that makes children like to look for attention in the surrounding environment. Some choose to perform and show their abilities to get attention. However, unfortunately, there are also those who choose to do bullying and make troubles and even riots to get the attention of their parents. This is very important to note for those of you who will become parents to always maintain the level of attention to the baby by giving enough attention.

   The next factor is the desire to be in power. People who like to carry out bullying , usually want to show their power and strength to get the recognition from they friends by pressing the weak and wanting other people to follow it under the pressure of fear from bullying. If you see an arrogant person, being bossy, he might like to oppress weak people and other people who don't want to obey him, so that the bullying become self satisfaction for those people who like to bullying other.

   And the last most important factor is ever being a victim of bullying (Violence). Usually, people who have been victims of bullying have the desire to replay what they have obtained. Violence can be obtained from parents or become victims of strangers. Violence that occurs from parents may be a form of discipline from parents to children and the child is not allowed to fight parents. Finally, because the child does not have the power to retaliate, the child only harbors these feelings and avenges others for release their anger which cannot be released. Children who live in this environment, for example in environments that often fight will be easier to imitate the behavior of the environment and not feel guilty when doing the same thing. In fact, the child can tend to feel ordinary and not feel violating the norm. This is done in order to show others that they are the most powerful and can get praise from many people.

   How to prevent bullying ? in my opinion, parents must be able to develop children's intelligence earlier. Teach children to have empathy , ethical and respect for others and make the children aware that they are social person who cannot live alone and need other people in their lives. So that , the children will respect other people more. To prevent bullying problems, a strict policy is needed from the school. Bullying perpetrators must be got kicked out from school and not allowed to study at any school, so that the perpetrators of the bullying are afraid and will never do a bullying actions that can harm others and can even lead someone to the death.

   Bullying is an action in which one or more people try to hurt or control another person by means of violence, Bullying can also be done through social media or the internet called cyber bullying. In general, people carry out rounding actions because they feel depressed, humiliated and threatened. Bullying is caused by victims of environmental condition that shape their personality to be aggressive and less able to control. Other factors that have a strong enough influence on someone to do bullying are lack of parental attention, lack of strict sanctions for bullying. Hope that the parents will develop children's emotional intelligence from an early age. Schools and the government must also be firm in responding to this problem.